I just had to share this. It’s marvelous.
I reiterate that if we learn by doing, and we learn through mistakes, sex is the one place where we wind up with things being entirely fraught.
In every other experience we get lessons. Get safety precautions. Assume risk. Fail and fail big. Try again.
But sex is always different and why? The risks can literally be life and death, yes, but also heartbreak.
So even more reason to have real lessons and real literacy.
I know personally I’ve had a number of experiences that weren’t “good” but were also not assault.
Thoughts on this article?